Re: hymenoplasty
Fooling the husband, fair or no fair, doesnt really matter. He could be fooling her for all she knows too...
'could' being the key word, which is not a defintite situation.
so basically we are saying that since a possibility ecxists that he can be keepingt hings froma woman that it is okay to use the possibility as a reason to lie to him?
The way that some men react to a nonvirgin bride is completely unfair too... I mean the girl could have everything BUT the hymen, and she's considered complete trash...
simple solution- dont marry such men.
if men werent so obsessive then women certainly wouldnt have to go to such extreme measures to ensure happiness and respect for themselves in their marriage.
correction not men..'some' men
you know what else is a betetr way to ensure happiness and respect? to be honest, and if the guy cant handle it, dont go for him.
Its not a life or death situation where he absolutely must know. Boo hoo im gonna die if I never know if shes been around the block before. Gimme a break.
maybe to you truth and honesty in a relationship is not a big deal, for some people it is.