hymenoplasty

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Re: hymenoplasty

@Ask99

Very well said Riya…The best opinion tht I have read so far here…:)…I guess the thread has provided its entertainment to all…It really is so true…no matter wat the dudes have done…it is “expected out of them cuz they r BOYS, and ofcourse Boys will be Boys”!! Everybody jumps on any such a slight inclining that the girl may have done something wrong cuz her hymen may not be there.I personally have heard of divorces happening on the wedding nights(the reasons are usally not told…but ofcourse it doesnt take a rocket scientist to determine wat the reason may be)…While on the other hand men may be boasting around in their boys club of all the “victories” they have had.
anyway like you mentioned Riya that those who cannot provide the information she asked for should get off their bandwagons and let it be.
And for the thread starter think it out…is it such an important thing that you are willing to go under the knife…as to speak. The general Anethesia in itself is really risky for a procedure that poses no immediate threat to your life. Thats my humble opinion. I would suggest you talking to your husband to be or just let it be.

and what do u think about a relationship that has at its core a lie. and what do you think about the people. whether the girl has done something wrong or not, if the person she is marrying can not understand this and a lie has to be manufactured to make the wedding work then there is a problem at the foundation of the wedding. I am not sure what kind of person has to inspect the sheets to validate the quality of goods

Now assuming that someone who goes for this procedure has a different history, tell me is it fair to lie to someone and present things differently. just because some men may be boating about their victories, does that in any way shape or form justify lying to one particular man?