Re: hymenoplasty
We're all assuming she did the unmentionable. What if she really didn't(benefit of doubt) and is having these ODD thoughts about tearing hymen due to whatever reasons.....only becuz of the mentality back home & what's expected. What if she's just worried that he will think she isn't a virgin even though she is..... i dont think i made sense...but aside from the poster... as mentioned here....not everyone has the typical 1st day experience or bleeding...etc.....so what about those ladies that did nothing at all but are just naturally stretchy...what about the men that marry them that are backwards and think she is not a virgin..
afro i think thje thread is lookign in generalities than just her situation.
my statement is the same still, and I know very well that it is easier said than done, but the guy needs to understand reality of the situation, if it is something that happened due to sports or whatever..if he cant understand that then there is a lack of trust that will be poison for the relationship, and if the procedure is being done to pacify any issues and then the fact that a procedure was done comes out somehow,then you can only imagine what it can be seen as.