Just wantd some tips on how to get husbands attention more. see, im always textn, or going over to him, talking to him, bascally u can say a typcial woman, but then if i decide ok im not gna keep pestering him and being in his face, he gets all why arent u pestering and being in my face..and when i am, hes immune to it…when im not hes asking why and then gets all moody.
i dont get it…
FYI- otherwise a good man. but not attentive enough and not up my **** enough. ( not literally speaking)
Try the truth for a change. When you don't pester him and he gets all moody and asks "why?", tell him because when you do he acts all immune to it (as you put it) See if that helps.
Thing is seriously- at times i wana talk to him like a friend, or just someone to listen to me seriously, he thinks im joking half the time, or hel be like huh wat, u say something? , he can be attentive, but if someone comes to me to talk, i listen, and look interested he looks like hed rather pluck his eyebrows off, or he starts playing with our daughter and then when i say helloooo u listening he says huh wat, haan bolo....which *********** me right off......
Stop joking around and he will take you seriously all the times. It is your own fault , you did not train him well enough to know the difference between you joking and you being serious.
Try talking to him when you have his full attention. How to get his full attention there are many tricks like:
1. Strike a soon against frying pan to create some noise and once you have attention talk to him.
2. Drop a glass or a plate on the floor and talk to him while he watches you clean that mess , he will have full attention to you at that time and will watch your every move.
3. Buy a whistle and blow it at the top of your lung to get his attention.
4. Put all the food in front of you away from him , he will make sure to let you finish talking to him as soon as possible .
I think if a women is smart she can win over the husband with little hardwork but she gotta have alot of patience for sure :D. Unfortunately most women lack patience hence the issues :p.