Yummmy chai this morning.
I’ve seen quite a few men who don’t say ANYTHING to their wives but secretly complain about their wives to a close buddy. Instead of letting the wife down in front of someone else, why can’t they confront their wife and come up with a compromise let’s say something is bothering them?
Are they scared of their wife’s temper?
They don’t have guts. What could be the reason?
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The things Mr Niks was telling me about you…
j/k 
Some people don’t like confrontation and keep schtum to have an easy non-conflict filled life i guess.
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Because they're scared of their wives...and value their stomach as well as their sleep.
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Kya bol raha tha :ASA:
OK I understand the non-conflict thing but what if she found out through someone else? WOuldn't that become the mother of all conflicts?
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some men have this habit of becoming 'bhiigii billi' infront of their wives and 'mazloom' infront of others...... and i will call them besharaam and beghairat...not darpoook...
yeah if hubster did that to me i'd have trouble believing that he loves me at all. i mean how can a dude put his fear of confrontation at a higher priority than his wife's reputation?
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(most of the) men by nature are non-confrontational. I guess they why they do it ...
I am about to change Maroush’s nick without telling her and she knows what is it going to be.
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Please do not derail my thread. What are your views on this issue?
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where do I find these type of men
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mein apnee biwi sey bilkul nahi darta :nono:
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As long my biwi can’t throw her chittar in a straight trajectory and doesn’t know how to cook (hence can’t blackmail me) I’ll puff my chest out like a brave brave man. :k:
Jeee acha :aq:
on day of judgement farista said to all the men … jo apnee BV sai dartey theey wo right hand walee line main aa jaeen aur jo nahee dartey theey wo left hand walee. All but one man moved to right hand line. Farishta was happy that at least 1 man was not afraid of his wife.
He went to the man as said “bravo … you were not afraid of your wife?”
Guy was like “darna warna tu pata nahee begum nai kaha tha ager right hand walee line main gaeey na qayamat k din, tu tangeen toor doon gi”
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ahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhahaa awesome!
“meri_laik_jawaan_behn”?
Hahahaha awesome
I do not lie. 
Ok now I have to be serious. My wife already yelled at me in above post about me derailing her thread. And now she wants me to express my views about darpok husbands. 
I am sure there are darpok hubbys out there but many just do it to avoid negative situations at home. Even to me, avoiding an argument that can create tension is far more better than trying to win one and dertroy the peace at home. Does it mean that I should take it to the extreme of not covering the blind spots of my wife and not helping her to over come her weaknesses but pointing them out to her (off course mine is an angel, I am referring to the normal human type wives of other people). I dont think so.
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I had a thread long time ago on this topic
One friend of mine says “shareef admee key nishanee yey hay k woh apni biwi say darta hay.”
Sahee ya ghalat ?
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/299505-one-friend-mine-says.html?highlight=shareef
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I have seen mostly guys are shaare in front of others with their wives and a totally billy in bedroom :D