Parents have arguments and that’s fine- kids have got to know that it’s okay to have differences. It’s how you handle the disagreements that counts.
I get the feeling that you’re in deep (love your husband, have a baby, have invested a lot into your relationship- emotional and financial) and a bit scared? You have the same issues that you’ve raised on a number of occasions. If you don’t tackle them now, they’ll dominate your life and you’ll probably end up resenting the very thing you’re trying to protect- your marriage. I could never do what you have- living with my MIL- but you have, despite how you feel about her. Well done. It takes a strong person to do that in my eyes. However, don’t lose sight of who you are and what you feel comfortable with. Sometimes, the more you give, the more you expected to carry on giving. It’s not fair.
You should have married a doctor or a dentist or a millionaire then you would not have these problems.
Premature births and generic ill health are caused by lack of vitamin d which most asians are deficient in but you insist on covering up and pay the price down the line.Most of you rely on Allah to keep you healthy.
In India Muslims live longer than the Hindus, could it be consumption of beef? I thought you guys do the Jahaiz thing and have to give some tiny abusive male a lot of money to marry your women and she is supposed to touch this smelly little guys feet.