husband...

Re: husband...

No way, i made briyani, and i added the whole packet as it told me too, tooooooooooo hot, even half a pack was just about ok...

Just get used to it.

At home the man may say: My secretary is great looking but not as good as you are.

And at work...oh well.

Just get used to it. That's how we men are. ;)

My question is why is he even comparing mother's excellent cooking with you? :)

:wink:

Poison kar ka dono kaah lo

sath mar to jaoo gay na

Jab Love karti ho to why Complaining !!:femmefatale:

Yaa nahi ka Masala Tv daikhoo - Din Raat

Mehnat karo - Aousi ka Mom sa Pakkana seekhoo - and become Expert ka expert :k337:

Re: husband…

its a very common debate

sub lerkay shaadi kay baad aisay he boltay haen

as someone has said, get used to it!!! koi 3 ya 4 saal guzer jaen gay tub SHAYED tabdeeli aa jaey

my hubby still complains… :chai:

tumhara hubby ka lia kasooosi dua karoon ga :slight_smile:

Jis tarhan tumhari battain pata chal rahi hain - u are dangerous

Re: husband...

next time he gift you anything ...say....its nice but comparing to the gift i get from my parents...this is nothing

I can understand how it feels....you cook for the hubby and then he complains that its not like his mom use to make...gosh..if i was you, i would also react same...

Re: husband...

^ How old are you? 12?

Edit: Lol you edited it.

I can relate to your feelings :hugz:

next time you go within anywhere in his car , tell him that you are a good driver but as good as my daddy :snooty: or pick any other thing that he do and compare it with your dad or your brother :devil:

Re: husband…

agar wo complain nahi keray ga to wo “typical husband” kaisay huwa :wink:

^This.

Or:

Aap uss ke khanay mai julaab mila dain.

Phir nahi complain keray ga. :chai:

What in the world is that supposed to mean?

justs tells that he has no career in diplomacy. If he ever to take diplomacy as a career, ask him to get job at gas station. He will do better there.

He just spoke the truth (as per your admissions) and it hurts. See there are 2 reasons to criticize someone

1) May be he want you to improve and setting the bar high.
2) He is just criticizing to degrade you.

I'd swallow first type without any complains. i dont mind it when my wife compare something (or lack of it) in me with her father because I know she want to see me next to his idol (her father).

Re: husband…

I’d go hang out with his momma and steal her secret recipes :yummy:

may be her main ingredient is love?

what should wife do in such case? she is help-less coz cooking food for husband is (made to look like) a hard task by its-self let alone adding the ingredient of love :slight_smile:

he is *in prick do doubt abt that i dnt fink he desr u bhonst y dnt u tel him go * of nd tel u mum to mak u som fign if he complains nxt tym kasmie sham ****in typicl apny

:D

i don't think he said it to degrade me.. it was something that just came out because i had made something that his mom made for him quiet a lot and he loves eating it.. The only thing that bothers me is if he compares everything I cook rather than just that particular dish.. I know my husband pretty well so I know he didn't mean to insult me but maybe a push to do better perhaps.. who knows!! but ofcourse me being a women thousand things go through my mind.. I can always ask him why he said that but that would make my life tooo easy!

Re: husband...

Just agree with him. Make life easy. Why try to compete?

^Yeah, who cares if your MIL makes better food than you..... food is not the end of the world, you do a lot of things for your husband that your MIL can't ;)

Re: husband…

^MiAn: :smack: Not a good thing to say. Right?

Niether a man should compare wife with his mother in anyway, nor should she try to compete.