Well that’s becausea wife usually move in with their in laws or just live with her husband. So she sees her husband more than her mother or siblings.
My wife gets to see her mother and siblings on a regular basis. It’s good for me, I get to spend some Seef time.
I don’t believe in “who comes first.” I consider myself the Holy Trinity: Son/Husband/Brother lol…
I just believe in making adjustments. I have to accommodate for another person (my wife). But it’s not an issue with me. Only my wife and my mom and siblings can make it an issue but thank God they haven’t. I am truly blessed.