HUSBAND WIFE REALATION SHIP

Lifestyle Relationships
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well i just wana know what do ya people think of this realation.is it the strongest or the weakest.
from my point of view its the weakest coz of sooo many reasonss.yet a happy married person love my hubby cant think of taking breath if i know he is not with me…
but y always a wife has to get all the blames for any thing done wrong if it with her MIL,SIL why the hubby will always ask his wife that what she has done wrong y he will not ask his mom ya sis.
any thing gone wrong by a mistake from wife side then again the hubby will ask the wife in possessive case throw her out act like talked with her co-workers ,same as immune is mad if she had taken that pics in thats posses at that moment hubbies says that his wife is spoiled…
husband wife share the private and private act of all ,but again if it comes to any problem husband is never coperative,understanding and will blow up the realation if any thing goes wrong…its a breakable realation ship but if with all mistakes and every thing u go to ur parents they will always be there to accept uuu…
what u people think.

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strongest and bestest

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Def the strongest.

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oh and beautifullest

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strongest and weakest

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Beautifullest---LOL!

And most shandaar... (cue bollywood love song)

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lolz.....shandaar.

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When husband and wife are partner and partner then theres no stronger bond that could ever be. When the bond of husband and wife is that of superior and lesser than sure its the weakest of relationships.

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depends on the guy....but wife is ridiculously crazy about his wife and if anyone says anything to him he gets defensive. but i'm like w/e cuz i hope my husband is that crazy about me IA lol....but everyone else makes fun of his deewanapain(i.e. cousins)

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Those retarded men end up 42 and alone.

Men who are smart don't behave like that.

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PCG why are you so hostile?

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awwww so nice mashAllah ..:)

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What PCG said is quite true actually.

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Let me make the first Male entry here in this thread

It is the strongest one,

If some one objects you, is concerned about your doings, points on you it will mean you have some value for him/her.

If he/she express nothing or do but heartlessly would mean , he/she does not care about you.
It is the beauty of this relationship I think when the individuals will be pointing out very trival things in one another , not in Humaliting way but in a proper , Politie and decent way.

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but y always a wife has to get all the blames for any thing done wrong if it with her MIL,SIL why the hubby will always ask his wife that what she has done wrong y he will not ask his mom ya sis.
Even though I am not married but I think when I am actually married I would go ask my wife rather than mom or sis not because I don't trust her but because I do trust her and I wanna get her side of the story first and that I trust her to tell me what exactly happend ... its not about placing the blame but because I trust her and think that she can handle the things on my behalf and do the right thing

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that's because the wife is the only "outsider". The rest are family and regardless of how much family members hate each other - they will still be united in front of outsider.

Now here's the tricky part - The wify becomes part of the family - when a third party holds a fight. Then the wify is equally an "insider" and must support the family no matter how much hate is present. Cause now they are all united.

babble babble babble -have nothing better to do... lol

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true but when the hubby say no matter what my parents say or u know that ur hubby never gona accept ur point .......once i had a problem with my hubby that is i just said him that i didnt like her sis wedding lengha just freely comment and i still don like it......but omy goush what the ****** he insulted me for saying that i am an oldfashion person look at ur own cloths toooo much...we had are nikha but rukhsati wasent done so i had to fly that day to my parents and allll the way till i reached i only cried the whole flight that what i had said wrong just said that i didnt like her lengha and now iam married and alll his family members ask me to make and design there cloths and i get in my mind the day he insulted me and i wana tell and ask himm now who has fashion sense though i dont wana open gravessss:(.....

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may be your hubby has this preconceived notion that you are there to "bad mouth" his family - even for as little as not liking a dress of his sister. May be he just does not want to give you a chance to be "superior" to his family... because of his previous experience?

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The temptation to do it is probably great. Don't. It's just going to restart another argument and you will more than likely both end up hurt again. People can be super defensive of their families. It's the way things are. I love my friends and family. They have their flaws. I myself have pointed them out on several occasions. And still, if someone else starts pointing out the same flaws that I have pointed out previously, I get super defensive. It's ok for me to do it, but not anyone else...which is a completely hypocritical attitude to have. But it's the way humans are programmed.

He seems to have overreacted to your comment about his sister's lengha. Definitely agree with you. But perhaps you shouldn't have mentioned it. Remember the saying, "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all." There's a reason why it's such a popular saying because it's stopped many arguments from getting started. I'm not trying to say that you were purposely trying to insult his sister. It's just the sort of thing you say in a casual conversation...especially girls since we tend to notice clothes and have definite opinions on what we like/don't like. But sometimes, it's just wiser to not say anything depending on who you're dealing with. I have some friends where I will tell them to their face that something looks horrid. Others, I will not say a word simply because I know it will send them into a frenzy. So just try to keep your audience in mind and move on.

As for the taking sides thing...try to take a step back and look at things dispassionately. When he's disagreeing with you and taking their side, is he doing it simply because "this is my family and they can do no wrong" or is there a genuine reason? If it's the former, then you need to have a discussion with him because there are two sides to every story. If it's the latter, then perhaps a bit of self-examination is in order?

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i love my hubby he loves me too a lot i know but its some time i cant figureout what just he does in minutes and it looks like a 100 years distance in between ........i get dissappointed at many times that is this a relation i dont say iam demanding,out badmouth even i dont let him know with the little fights we have at our home with my mil and sil just i ignore them them that ya aurtooo ka mammla hay so men shouldt be in just not to raise fire but stilll i love him so muchhhhh........i never told any one ,never explained to my hubby as he just make a mazak that like dramay na kerooo ....but again he is very caring .when ever he says me not to do i dont and i just remeber the time when he cared for me so that no fights occur coz i am not that fightooo type i hate fightsss even its not my mistake...i just want to keep the environment tension free for every one but for this i suffer .....sab kuch dimagh may rehta hay then ....................:(and i get depression and how can be a person gets happy when such things are moving in mind on and offf.