Why does it bother the wives so much? Its like some special whine/piss off button.
Whenever the guy goes out to meet his buddies, (and i am talking about even those who visit like once a week or twice in a month kind of cas), the wives start calling/texting and all sort of weird ‘kaams’ need to be done all of a sudden.
So ladies, what triggers this behaviour? Why can’t you let the man have some breathing space?
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Why does it bother the wives so much? Its like some special whine/piss off button.
Whenever the guy goes out to meet his buddies, (and i am talking about even those who visit like once a week or twice in a month kind of cas), the wives start calling/texting and all sort of weird 'kaams' need to be done all of a sudden.
So ladies, what triggers this behaviour? Why can't you let the man have some breathing space?
Women are emotional and social creatures meaning if you leave with ur buddies without letting her know then she gets worried.. You just need to communicate with her about ur plans :) ...
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Why does it bother the wives so much? Its like some special whine/piss off button.
Whenever the guy goes out to meet his buddies, (and i am talking about even those who visit like once a week or twice in a month kind of cas), the wives start calling/texting and all sort of weird 'kaams' need to be done all of a sudden.
So ladies, what triggers this behaviour? Why can't you let the man have some breathing space?
I would like to meet such women. Never seen this happen at my home or in my circle of friends.
Husband should think that what is he doing wrong the other 28 evenings that wife is unhappy him being out with his buddies 2 evenings a month.
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Husband should think that what is he doing wrong the other 28 evenings that wife is unhappy him being out with his buddies 2 evenings a month.
You daaaaaaaaaaa Real Man!!!
The wives would never call if they also got the same luxury and considerations.
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I would like to meet such women. Never seen this happen at my home or in my circle of friends.
Happened to my cousin. She would suspect her husband all the time because he was dishonest with her. She would constantly text and call him to get back home while he was out with friends...
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May be she didn't get to visit her friends even once a week let alone twice because of home, kids etc hence she doesn't want her husband to do so too ...... why guys always want space? ..... want to visit their friends & stuff ...... ladies need some space too .... they want to hang out with their friends too .....
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What irks me the most is spouses and in-laws placing restrictions on one from visiting their family. Irks is putting it mildly; it really pisses me off.
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I don't bother hubby if he is out with friends although to be fair he hardly ever goes out, maybe once every 1 -2 months if that. On the rare occasion that he is with his friends, I make an effort NOT to bother him keeping in mind that all of his other time is spent with me.
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What irks me the most is spouses and in-laws placing restrictions on one from visiting their family. Irks is putting it mildly; it really pisses me off.
Same here. Like how can you stop someone from seeing loves ones? You dont own your wives/daughter in laws/sister in laws. Jeeze....
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Just one word ...insecurity
Why does it bother the wives so much? Its like some special whine/piss off button.
Whenever the guy goes out to meet his buddies, (and i am talking about even those who visit like once a week or twice in a month kind of cas), the wives start calling/texting and all sort of weird 'kaams' need to be done all of a sudden.
So ladies, what triggers this behaviour? Why can't you let the man have some breathing space?
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Just one word ...insecurity
I think trust is missing in their relationship. Why would a girl act so weird like that?
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Why does it bother the wives so much? Its like some special whine/piss off button.
Whenever the guy goes out to meet his buddies, (and i am talking about even those who visit like once a week or twice in a month kind of cas), the wives start calling/texting and all sort of weird 'kaams' need to be done all of a sudden.
So ladies, what triggers this behaviour? Why can't you let the man have some breathing space?
I think it's their clingyness (I think that's not even a word)...BUT it is also because wives usually devote all their time between their husband and kids and don't have a separate social life as such. I am basing my observation on some desi couples I have seen around me. And I think to this day many of them don't realize how important it is to have sometime without each other for a healthy relationship.
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I've seen white american women go out with their girlfriends or having a girls night out. Desi women are not like that much. It's like ^^^^ said, desi women devote themselves too much to husband and kids and going out by themselves with their friends, I think is seen as selfish or immature, i've personally never seen it.
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This reminds me of my husbands cousin (they live in another country). So when we were visiting once, staying at my relatives' place and he wanted to hang out with my hubby. They were going to go out late like leave at 12 and then come back at 2-3 am. I was all like yes go, when will u get time. So cousins asked hubby k what is bhabi (me) doing, and I told my hubby that no its too late and I'm just going to spend time with my relatives dont make any plans with me in it. So anyway, cousin cancelled because apparently he could only go if he could drop his wife at my place so I could what? babysit her? I found it so beyond lame that I can't even describe to u what I felt at that time. He's done this two other times as well. That time the excuse was that the wife apparently gets scared Alone at home. (plz how does the husband go to work, she's home alone then too right). But get this now they have a baby! I don't think u have time to feel scared, lonely or bored with a toddler at home.
And on seperate occasions when we have been visiting more of my husbands family and this cousin would come with his wife (who is also my hubby's cousin btw) and then the guys would make a plan to go out for a while like an hour or two, god u have to see how antsy his wife gets, how she feels like she's missing out on some fun, and how she wants to be joined at the hip with him and apparently how the rest of us are boring her. Please clingy women get a life. It will not be the end of the world of ur husband has fun without u on his own time.
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Why does it bother the wives so much? Its like some special whine/piss off button.
Whenever the guy goes out to meet his buddies, (and i am talking about even those who visit like once a week or twice in a month kind of cas), the wives start calling/texting and all sort of weird 'kaams' need to be done all of a sudden.
So ladies, what triggers this behaviour? Why can't you let the man have some breathing space?
really? i haven't seen ladies like this in my family and my circle.
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you haven't seen them, must be my imagination.
Well i agree with pw chap..it does bother wives much..but yo..if wives aren't given liberty to be with her friends etc at the same time or other...of course she is gona mind ya know. I am all down for giving space in relationship..i personally wouldn't like clingyness..
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you haven't seen them, must be my imagination.
lol, i didn't mean you are making it up.