Re: Husband the person u trust?
^How gullible can a guy be if every vile action of him can be attributed to his family? And if indeed one is this way, are they mature enough to handle any situation? Whether or not his parents. sisters or other family members added to the problem, it is your husband who needs to realize that he is being unfair to you. He needs to realize that your parents weren't under any obligation to provide household furniture and car and what nots for him. On the contrary, it's his job to provide these ameneties to his wife. Unfortunately people in Pakistan have come to see dowry as their justifiable right.
Secondly, why does he expect you to buy gifts for his family? Gifts are something that should be given out of love, or because you feel like giving them, they shouldn't be DEMANDED for heaven's sake!
Honestly how much did you get for your salaami that they constantly keep bringing that up? Regardless of what you got in Salaami, it's your husbands religious duty to pay for all of your expenses. And in failing to do so, he is not fulfilling his duties. If you really wish to go back to him, or for him to come to you you need to consider all of these things. To me they just sound like a greedy bunch of folks. Maybe now he is being only sweet to you to garner more 'material favours'. If I were you, I would think twice before sending a visa to someone who has already shown how greedy and materialistic they are. Apart from being an uncaring spouse.