Common sense, people. You help people where you can. You take care of your own family first, because no one else will.
And FYI, why exclude the wife??? She gave birth to those kids, so you better well give her respect. The first person that gets excluded when it comes down to money crunch, is YOU.
wish everyone had this common sense these days everywhere people are just looking for some scriptural support for anything..
simple if it hurts you it might hurt others too .. follow this principle you won't have to go perusing sciptures for anything..