husband or parents?

Re: husband or parents?

Oo, that's a tough situation. We dont have sons in the family either - I face that situation. I will not be leaving the country, and if it means my husband leaves, he can leave. I stay. Who will take care of my parents in their old age?

Now if they're able to live on their own just fine, its one thing. She should give Canada a try, and see if she can have her parents immigrate there. That's what I'd do. I'd give it a try - you never know. Sometimes things work out. And its not like she's moving to a worse living situation - she'd be living in a better country and a better environment. But I'd understand if she breaks it off just so she can be with them. The other option is to go back and forth often to Pakistan and visit the parents.

How is it different than if you were to move cross country from your parents?