Husband isn't ready for children

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Re: Husband isn’t ready for children

@Paheli00

Have you ever taken care of a child (let’s say 3 or under) for several days in a row?

But you didn’t feel your biological clock ticking 1 year ago when you told your husband that you’re happy to wait 2-3 years? That’s a drastic change in views in just 1 year…from 26 to 27. Do you have any medical condition and/or family history that leads you to believe that getting pregnant might be an issue for you?

I know I’ve changed my tune. I’ve always wanted children young, at least one if not two before I turn 30. But the year leading up to the shaadi was hectic and a bit of a blur.. So the whole kids issue didn’t even enter my mind, or that I’d be ready soo quickly. I’ve even surprised myself to a degree.. So I know I may be being unreasonable and possibly expecting too much from him. It’s just hard to ignore how I feel now. I’ve been working for 5 years now, and happily married, so my next thought has gone to babies.. I’ve looked after nieces and nephews, since they were babies till 5, I totally know how much hard work it is. Sleepless nights, no time for yourself. I feel like I’m ready to make that commitment. But I also understand if my husband isn’t ready I am going to have to wait. I’m just finding it hard to deal with. The only family history or infertility is an aunt of mine, but I’m not sure how relevant that is. I just have a fear that what if we wait another 2 years and then I struggle to conceive?