husband interested in wife's sister

Is this for real or a hypothetical situation to get people up in arms about stuff?

If this is real, lets add up all the things you have mentioned.

  1. Husband puts on a flirty whenever he sees his Sali sahiba. He acts caring towards her and speaks well of her to family & friends.

  2. The wife & her family and Sali Sahiba are assuming that the husband’s smile and caring behavior towards Sali Sahiba means he is interested in Sali Sahiba and therefore “hate” him.

  3. " Wife is never satisfied physically with her husband." Not sure if you mean, her hormones are out of whack and he is unable to satisfy her sexually, wife finds him physically repulsive, he doesn’t help around the house or she is not wanting to be intimate with her husband or that husband doesn’t want to be intimate with wife.

  4. Wife recently gave birth and was busy with taking care of baby and didn’t notice the flirty smile but noticed it recently and confronted husband and now husband is being a"jerk" again.

  1. Sali Sahiba avoids her “creepy” BIL.

Adorlov,
What does the wife think that she should do? What are your thoughts, what have you advised both of them?

husband interested in wife's sister

I have asked her to make him realise that he is not being good. Now he is married to her and should be concerned about her and think about the child.
If he doesnt understand and be the same so she should leave him.

Re: husband interested in wife’s sister

umm may be you need to know why he is attracted towards her?
She is more pretty than you or her nature is cool than you or something else?

Jo bhi hai… she is just like a sister to him… he should be ashamed of his positive feelings towards her. Next time jab wo creepy smile dy… ur sis should say loudly: O beghertaaaaaaaaa :afshi:

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

so he smiles at the SIL and says good things about her.

and now everyone hates him.

everyone needs to loosen up or eat rat poison, if you ask me.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

what does wife, sister, brother's father,s mother's husband's wife's DIL think about that ?

Whether he has the hots for Sali Sahiba or not, the husband and wife need to resolve their differences and live a life of mutual respect and shared goals. When things sour, people often need help from an objective third party to mediate and help them identify the shared goals & values and build/strengthen dilapidated bridges of trust.

At the end of the day, both hold the key to making it work or calling it quits. They each need to figure out how much they will tolerate.

A relationship is a two way street. Requires equal amounts of effort from both sides to keep it going.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

dunno exactly what they'd hope to gain by refraining from socialising in front of him.. he'll just ogle elsewhere.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

just that *dil hai ke manta nahi *

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

This might be a joke for you but not for the OP. Respect!

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

I wasn't joking. You can't control whom you're attracted to.

Next time when you ask others to show respect, how about you lead by example and ask nicely.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

I bet he is thinking only if he could marry her too.

Aside from being haraam. I don't how many W's I should put in my eww. Sleazy guy.

husband interested in wife's sister

I have albinisim and my sister is normal and more beautiful then me or you can even say beautiful enough that he likes her.
He says now that he got married to me because i forced him to. Huh
I am just blank. What should i do?
Should i let the things go on as they are?
If i take an action
Whats next for me to come
I am cluless nd getting mad i am just 20 nd baby is going to turn a year old.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

Talk to your parents. Explain them what you are going through. If he is not sincere to you then I am not sure why you should stay in this relationship. You are just 20, you have your entire life infront of you. You have to decide how you want to live.

Wow...your life has more twists than a drama. Quickly pen it and make some money off of it and leave hubby to his flirty ways. (saying this in jest, if we can't laugh at the absurdity in our lives, we age quickly and become bitter).

How old is your sister? How old is your husband? How old were you got married?

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Yes, I have asked quite politely to respect.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

pick a knife.

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

iz she hot

Re: husband interested in wife's sister

My friend's sister's husband used to do that too. In the beginning of the marriage because he was not used to having all these girls around him.

husband interested in wife's sister

Husband is 25 sis is 22 i was 19 wen i got married