Husband in control of finances

[Paheli00]

Re: Husband in control of finances

@pakigirl33

I have a credit card that I can use when I want. like for example, I have to ask him before buying anything for me or kids, and it has to be on sale and it should be a need not a want.

Those 2 statements contradict each other so which one is it. Can you use the credit card when YOU want? Or did you husband specifically/directly tell you that you MUST ask him for permission before buying ANYTHING for yourself or the kids? Did he directly tell you that you cannot buy anything that’s not on sale and can’t buy anything simply b/c you “want” it?

BTW, did he grow up poor?