Re: husband betrayal
I would also like to add that the word "betrayal" is being used incorrectly in this thread.
A betrayal takes place when one has been dishonest or has cheated on you.
Everyone has a past. Even wives might have had crushes or boyfriends in the past. And it's not an obligation for one to share their past relationships with their spouse unless it jeopardizes the marriage.
IF.....your husband is being FAITHFUL to you and sincerely and wholeheartedly loves you....then there is NO BETRAYAL in this situation. And if a wife STILL gets upset about his past flames......then she's having insecurity/jealousy issues.
IF the husband DOES NOT sincerely love his wife....and is still hung up over an ex-girlfriend OR if he entered the marriage knowing full well that his heart belongs to someone else.....then that is betrayal, deception, cowardice.