Re: husband betrayal
This is a common problem amongst many married couples I know and there is a very easy way to differentiate between the ones that suffer due to a partners past and the ones that just move on.
If the hubby (lets assume its him with the past as it normally is!) had prior relationships but makes you feel like you are the only woman in the world...nothing in the past matters.
If a hubby is cold and doesn't make an effort in the relationship, then thats when the problems arise. The wife begins to feel jealousy and resentment towards those past women who gained all his love and attention when it should have been her. I have heard the line from men saying "its all in the past, at least I am not cheating on you" but believe me, a woman who feels neglected and unloved does feel cheated..not cheated on but cheated out off the opportunity to also feel his love.
This might be hijacking this post but I also want to pose a question:
Why do some men date loads of girls (or just date) and do all those romantic things with those girls but when they get married they stop?