Re: husband betrayal
i m not married was reading an article baout it so posted this thread
i dont know why always wives have to win their hunsbands heart if he involved in some one b4 or after getting married.
he should opologise and feel ashamed of doing such act cuz being in rleation i mean in engament,nikkah,or bat pakki period or being married he indulge with someone which she shouldnt.
LOL very buchkana soach. If you have problem with his past uncontrolalbe emotion then it's not his problem but yours. Why you bother about his past? Forget past not only yours but others too. Allah is there to deal with the ppl pasts.
If after marrying you he falls in love with someone then you have to worry about that as there might be some reason because of you or his own nature. Then you have to work it out. As for him it's easy to fall in love and leave you or divorce you but it would be bad for you in all way no matter if you are responsible for anything or not as socity will ALWAYS blame you for that and no one would ever want to marry you. So who gets the problem THE GIRL. So to make the things right whose main problem is THE GIRL'S. So she has to win his heart otherwise bad for her.
Boys don't get any problem even after having 100 or 1000 love affair after knowing that many girls and girls family would want him to marry her or their daughter but no one would want to marry a divorcy girl.
It's very simple to understand. Chahay kharbooza churi pay giray ya churi kharboozay pay katna baharhaal kharboozay nain hi hota hai. Churi kabhi kharboozay say naheen kut kay tukray hota. lol Yaqeen naheen ata to practicle kar kay daikh lain churi aur kharboozay ka.
Girls are always and will remain kharboozay. No matter what they do they won't ever become CHURRY. Some might be chappan churi but won't be good enough for chappan chura.
and if u experiance thsi case is it really easy to get out of this relation cuz if u married and got divorce society,yr relatives freinds always blame u for this and made so many fake stories and u find much difficulty to get marry again cuz hardly resonable ppl liek to marrya divorcy
and if u engaged and this happnes an du broke the rishta..
ppl again make stories that hwy this rishta broke..whats wrong and again u find difficulty to find nice rishta for u cuz mostly think that larki main hi kuch masla hoga huh!