Re: husband betrayal
^ I agree. What matters is whether or not your husband is committed to you. Most people have a past of crushes and girlfriends/boyfriends. And if he has moved on from his past and sincerely loves you and wants to marry you and is faithful.....that is most important. You don't want to marry someone who does not reciprocate your feelings.
If you're engaged to him and find out that he loves someone else........please break it off. Everyone deserves to be in a **MUTUAL **loving relationship. You don't want to be in a marriage where you are constantly competing with the ghost of his past girlfriend.
It's best to find these things out before marriage. It's easier to break off a loveless engagement than a loveless marriage.
And most importantly, you should love and respect yourself as person.....and never settle for anyone (husband, friend, etc) who can't love and respect you.