Re: Husband before kids?
And yet you frame your response in terms of you fulfilling your husband’s needs vs. those of your child. I don’t think anyone, specially parents, will disagree with you though. I don’t. The point the article is making is more about taking care of the relationship, not the person. The relationship with spouse is different from the relationship with your child. While you are busy taking care of the needs of the baby, you don’t want the relationship with your husband to suffer. Most of us guys will understand if a new mom is not able to cook for us, but they won’t forget it if you take the relationship itself for granted.