What would you girls do if your husband says that he can't pay the house expenses? Coz He has to send money back home and he has to pay their costs in PK....He has two brothers. He youngest brother doenst' work. Too lazy! Now my husband force me to work!! If I don't want then he wants to give my house for rent to someone and then he wants to live with me in a room. I just decorated my house!! I really hate this!!
I've never been his responsibility!
ahhh, but have you ever been your own responsibility?
your approach here needs to change, its not his laziness that is the issue, he may not be making enough, may need to look for a new job or in your view should he be the one getting a second job?
as I noted earlier, you guys need to work things out, i dont know what the final solution for you guys would be, but discussing this in a mature manner as a partnership would give you much better returns.
also, depending on size and setup of your house, you may not even need to rent the whole house, i have seen cases where people have rented out a room in their home to someone, sometimes a student or often a professional who wants to be closer to his job for the week, since his own home is 3 hrs away from work, and he/she does not want to move the family so they rent a room in someone's house and show up there after work on Monday and are there mon-thu nights but friday go home directly from work.
depending on comfort level and all, it may not be the ideal situation, but then I am sure your husband would rather not have to support his family either but has to. We get situations in our life that are not ideal but we do our best to deal with them.
However, please make sure that you have discussion with your husband where he knows and feels he has your support and build a trust on this issue, and do put the expenses of his parents houseold through a sanity check.