We can’t really know what kind of friends they are, only your husband can know that but one of my best friends is extremely kanjoos makhi choos. It bothered me at that time and I even said it to him on his face (we were very close) and he said, he is just like that and can’t help it. Then once I was in deep ****, that could really have turned my life upside down. I was in bad and dangerous company and did not realise the gravity of situation. He really showed a lot of guts, he saved my ass and pulled me out of that situation even though by doing so he put himself in real danger. I forever feel indebted to him.