Re: Hurting people you begin bonding with, for their Vulnerabilities
^ ohhhhh TP.... :( plz plz plz dont be so disheartened!!!!
just remember that the average person lives for 60/70/80/90 years right? if they screw up in this life, then that is what they have chosen to do! theyv'e chosen these few tender years and are loosing the battle for what is in stall for eternity! BELEIVE me when I say that they are doing MORE harm to themselves then they are to you!!!!! remind yourself of that the next time someone delibertely tries to hurt you ok! However, that doesn't mean that i would personally pray for them to suffer in this world or the akhirat, I pray that they are forgiven and change their ways sooner then later.
Remember the ikhlaq of the Prophet SAW! how nice was he to the ppl around him and yet ppl threw rubbish on him, placed spikes in his path, and exiled him for 3 long years! and yet he continued to pay for thier guidance! just because it seemed that the kaafirs were on top of everything, eventually they became the dwellers of hell! and in it they shall live forever if Allah wills. Evil ppl may be in power for a while but that doesn't mean that Allah SWT isn't watching.. sometimes power can be a test, and a lot of ppl fail in that.
I personlly know someone who continues to be nice to a relative yet her relative is hell-bent is making her life miserably... call it jealousy or something else.
Finally, we should be REALLY careful in making assumptions about Allah SWT! this is a dangerous practise... plz dont assume that He will not hold these ppl accountable one day.
And count your blessings, with an honest heart... if you dwell too long on the things that aren't right in your life, then it makes it easier for the Shaitan to come to us and whisper stuff in our hearts. Subhanallah you are a Muslim, and paradise is promised to those who believe in Allah SWT and the last Prophet SAW. Isn't that a blessing! u obviously have a computer, and you have eyes that can read and fingers that are perfect enough to type, isn't that a blessing?
Plz my sister, DO NOT loose faith in Allah SWT... mayoosi is kufr and the shaitan rejoices at this.
Remember that you are living for the akhirat, this world is only a temporary stay.
I pray that Allah SWT eases whatever inflication you are going through, to guide those who hurt you, and to make yours and my Iman strong, Amin.