This is very very specific but I would like to start with a general definition anyway. What in your opinion is the circumference of huqooq ul ebaad in Islam? I believe in parents-children relationship there is an exception, like you can never be even equal to your parents how bad their behaviour be. Are there any more exceptions other than that? Offering another cheek if slapped on one is Christan ideology. Does Islam hail the same belief? What are the jayez limits of patience and forbearance?
Now the specific part:
How to deal with certified liars? I mean those who open their mouth and pour some falsification and lie out. its like if you are angry at someone, and you just need to vent it out, you allege them with totally lame and false accusations. How to react to them? And what if it becomes a practice? whats the best way to face such fabrications? Allah condemns liars, “LANAAT ALLAH E AL ALKAZIBEEN”. So how long should such practice be tolerated when it is condemned by the Allah Almighty Himself?
haqooqul ebad are rights of ur family,nieghbours and every human has...
patience is always supported in islam,if the one has power of revenge and then he forguves is best thing to do, but one shud not compromise wen its about uslam...as we know wen hazrat umer was about to kill a kafir n he spit on hazrat omer's face so hazrat omer released him,he said if i kill him now.it wud be for my revenge
and as far as lier are concerned...Islam teachs us to advice and guide if anyone has a bad habit in private,we shud not openly call him lier,try to do islah...and i guess then u shud avoid listening to him and make him realise with ur behaviour
While Maulana Ilyas was travelling, the person sitting besides him was misbehaving in such an irritating manner that the person sitting behind them kept thinking....Now Maulana sahab would get angry, now he would snub this misbehaving young man,...now...this is just too much !!..... BUT to his surprise, throughout the journey Maulana sahab remained quiet and calm.
Finally, the observer couldn't resist asking the reason of such patience against such disrespect, Maulana replied, " My anger is not of such low value, that I keep wasting it here and there. Out of the limited time, energy, emotions and concentration that Allah (swt) has blessed us with each day, why should we waste a part of them in useless arguments, negative thinking and wastage of emotions, when we can preserve them for good deeds...I don't blame this child, it is not his fault that he treated me in such a manner. Actually, Allah (swt) tests everyone's patience and HE tested mine through this man.
The young man became the difficult question of Maulana's Exam, which Maulana solved beautifuly, unlike most people....
While Maulana Ilyas was travelling, the person sitting besides him was misbehaving in such an irritating manner that the person sitting behind them kept thinking....Now Maulana sahab would get angry, now he would snub this misbehaving young man,...now...this is just too much !!..... BUT to his surprise, throughout the journey Maulana sahab remained quiet and calm.
Finally, the observer couldn't resist asking the reason of such patience against such disrespect, Maulana replied, " My anger is not of such low value, that I keep wasting it here and there. Out of the limited time, energy, emotions and concentration that Allah (swt) has blessed us with each day, why should we waste a part of them in useless arguments, negative thinking and wastage of emotions, when we can preserve them for good deeds...I don't blame this child, it is not his fault that he treated me in such a manner. Actually, Allah (swt) tests everyone's patience and HE tested mine through this man.
The young man became the difficult question of Maulana's Exam, which Maulana solved beautifuly, unlike most people....
very very well stated.
I dont know whether it satisfies my query though. We are not Maulanas (yes we can try though).
I think human beings are fragile, they do feel bad, get hurt and react against unfair treatment. But at the end of the day, Allah's judgement is the fairest, and it does take place too. He is the Best Judge no doubt.
