this is one thing that no one can avoid no matter how annoyed someone might be. in seeking apology and in asking for a second chance, humor used in a surprising way can work on its own to bring back the spark in a friendship and lighten up tight or bitter relations. if you can plan ahead and be humorous in a nice way, a lot of tense behaviours can be changed amazingly quickly.
some of the sophisticated threads including comments from EMM, Shikra, Decent Fellow, Anwar Qureshi, Khumar, Phatima1 and Confused are already great. i may be missing others as i dont log on in here frequently. try in real life. it will work wonders. any other takers?
cheers!
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jeezz thanx 
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any other takers?
i think i have done enough take, and others have done enough taking of me.. so i will pass on that..
with time my sense of humour is becoming a lot weirder and twist-ier .. in common urdu ways of explaining, i'm becoming more haram-ier .. and its despite of influence of anyone like family, coworkers, friends or ppl around too..
oh well, anything is good that prevents me from bending over, stretching that naturally unstretched gap and speaking from it..
something that u will come across later on,
a lot,
if u're legit :-)
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YEAH it is..
thats the best time to hit someone.. already annoyed? hell thats gonna do wonders.. person might just .. like pop their head or a vein or something .. (or cleanup crew required if energy transferred to other areas)
last time i tried humouring someone (half hour ago) i received a hysterical yelling afterwards..
(lady present with me was a family friend, and was annoyed at the drive thru coffee shop’s attendant).. her kid suprisingly giggled (both at my humour and her yelling)
hmmmmm..
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aha just woke anothe sleepy thread.
confused bro, you are absolutely correct. esp when women are angry and we can make them laugh, it is so nice to simply see them keep from laughing. laughs tell a lot about how approachable a person is. cheers!
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aha just woke anothe sleepy thread.
well i figured, u quoted the cafe ppl in cafe..
obviously, thread will die after a lil "jee thanx" or "how come my name isnt in there? i am funny? dont u know?" (didnt leave me any choice u clown did u?)
i am actually waiting for "dont u love me?" .. errrrrrrrrrrrrr..aaaaaa..
yeah.. right on !
aab bhai hain ye behain?
(not that it would make any difference)
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confused coupled with your confusion, as a medical student, take me to be either.
roll on with laughter, man. great?
i am a he.
cheers!
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sigh of relief
no wait.. i said it wouldnt matter..
sorry, kinda late night here on my side.. im having a lil bit of chemical imbalance in my body..
(and not the one that makes u feel better)