~ Humble Request ~ Plz Think About it.

Lifestyle Relationships
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I am quiet annoyed by the fact that people get married and begin to complain .. I mean come on . should have thought about it before if it was love marraige then should knw better ..that …that this IS your final choice and your happy .. thas why you married right .. and if it was arranged .. then you should have thought about it when it was time where you could opt out ..and had you opted out then there would nt be a life1 section ..would be a relief if ther wasnt and and if opted in … then for goodness sake grow a brain ..and live with it …complaining aint gona helpl ..aur woh bhi complaining to gher ppl .. who dont even knw your sittuation 100% .. and if you got married with full confidence .. then dont you knw the meaning of committement ???

anyways, friendly and humble request .. that marrige is a sacred and it has been since the creation of a sacred pact - way of life.. take it seriously and live by it as its supposed to … As muslims we should not be follwing what cultures tell you .. but rather Its our duty ..to look at the beautiful life of Prophet Muhammad SAW as to how he SAW treated his wifes and look at the beloved lifes of the the wifes of the Prophet SAW and hw they were obedient to the messenger SAW. We have soooooo many problems and issues .. because we have stop believing in islam and opted for an alternative .way of life …

Again ..my objective for opeing this thread is not to have a bash at anyone .. but as a humble servent of Allah Almighty .. I talk from experience that … marriage is one thing out of many what will keep you happy in this world and the heaafter.. your legacy lives on thru marriage… or your just gona be dead after 20 40 years and be knwn as a no body ..simple as that .. and if you wana be someone .. history through out time over and over tells that with every mans success, wife plays a major role .. and for the wife .. the mans duty is to support his wife in every aspect .. even respect and honor because your legacy/generation lives on only with the blessings from your wife.

so am sure .. this is what all of us want .. so why not Grow up ??

Thank You.

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i never complain even though im nt married :hehe:

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:lifey:

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Fbi786................are YOU YOURSELF married?????????? Just curious.

It's human nature to complain about things even if you're better off than a lot of people in this world. And no, I'm not trying to justify the complaining.

Also, you'll never know what a person is truly like UNTIL you start living with that person under the same roof. And this goes for a love and an arranged marriage. And keep in mind that sometimes the prospective in-laws may not show their true character until AFTER the marriage. Sometimes people are able to hide their nature from others also. Some people know the "exact" words to say during rishta meets. It's all a gamble. Unless you've been in EVERY single person's shoes....unless you live with the every couple and know of their troubles......it's easy to lecture to everyone not to complain.

Granted that some people will complain about the pettiest of things all the time and don't realize how good they have it.....but others may actually have serious issues. And sometimes people "vent" to clear their mind/get things out of their system....or to seek advice.

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Gee....complaining about people who complain :p

People have problems.

Get over it.

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Marriage IS the problem.

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I like the use of “~”. Real hardcore stuff :k:

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The Life1 forum is sacred too. Let's keep that intact. It needs gossip and gharam masala stories to run.

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Yes he is . . . you curious cat :vivo:

FBI I totally agree with you . Marriage is happiness . More the better .

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Polygamous Nami…lol

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We muslims are . :snooty:

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Hear hear..Nami says that those who are not polygamous (who only have one wife) are not Muslim. :stuck_out_tongue:

I appoint myself Nami’s translator. It’s a fun job, so far.

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Let me promote you to my personal assistant / secretory / cook / subordinate etc etc . and its gona be wayyyyyyyyyyy more fun :wink:

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ye wo phal hai.....

jo khaey wo pachtaey or jo na khaey wo bhi pachtaey!!!!!!

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FBI brother i’m with you on this one…

Complaining is the way of the world yaar… marraige is sacred folks try to understand that if nothing else.

My experiences in my short life have taught me much… i rarely speak without thinking these days.

Marraige for me is the happies part of my sad life it’s a shelter from the lonliness and a place of comfort.

However i understant that not everyone is like me and endures without saying a word… :sadaf:

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FBI, its pretty rare that someone whose life is all happiness and bliss will post here. Why should they? People post here about their issues so that they can get other viewpoints and hear different takes on their situations. Nothing wrong with that and many times its quite helpful.