human being can never do unconditional love

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cute_swee2 April 10, 2007, 10:04pm 1

**human being can never do unconditional love
it sounds little strange,but if we introspect carefully,we will find its difficult to find sombody loving unconditionally.
even parents love contains a kind of selfishness(i must be sounding rude but if u guys think carefull u will able to understand the depth of my very statement)… will be happy to know ur own views about this

TC wid love
Cute Swee2 **

Poora_Mohalla April 10, 2007, 10:06pm 2

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

I have lived through an unconditional love once but it turned out that it ended with the unfulfillment of the condition that I was to be loved too

_Iraj April 10, 2007, 10:08pm 3

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Poora mohaala loves me unconditionally

chacha_Ghalib April 10, 2007, 10:10pm 4

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^
kaya aap ki parchoon ki dukaan hai mohally main

_Iraj April 10, 2007, 10:17pm 5

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

mohallay waalay meray qarz daar hain

chacha_Ghalib April 10, 2007, 10:19pm 6

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

u obviously dont know wot u’r talkin about…

qarz khwaa say sub nafrat kartay hain mohabbat nahin

on the other hand they’d love you if u had a dukaan where they could borrow stuff when they required somthing

_Iraj April 10, 2007, 10:25pm 7

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

they still love me bbecaz they have taken lots of qarz

i don't know whether it's qarz daar aur qarz khwaan .. ( sorry-- very weak urdu)

chacha_Ghalib April 10, 2007, 10:28pm 8

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karz daar = the person who ows money
karz khwaa = who wants it back

_Iraj April 10, 2007, 10:31pm 9

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

thanx ..
for reminding ..
i lent them money so i'm karz khwa

ghazel_rizvi April 11, 2007, 7:42am 10

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

ur right sweet2

and where r u hooney long time no see u

Addie April 11, 2007, 8:02am 11

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I dont think so in the parents case

ghazel_rizvi April 11, 2007, 8:31am 12

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ur right too addie :)

K337 April 11, 2007, 10:14am 13

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

ya i agree with u Ghazal
human are really mean ................paisaoon say pyar kar saktay hain par aaisay hi ksisi say nahi

Aap ka jo Dil Hay Na Woh Woh Woh...

ghazel_rizvi April 11, 2007, 10:26am 14

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well mera ya khayal hey love is love love shuld b pure and clean always alway mother does alot of care and love but in many case i saw wahan bhe nahe hoit sachai herat bhe hoti hey but reallty say nahe mun morna cheya

ghazel_rizvi April 11, 2007, 10:27am 15

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AND in other case hum tu passay say peyar kertay per pessa hum say nahe so peesa is also has conditinal love

Muslim_girl_1 April 12, 2007, 3:32am 16

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udhaar mohabbat ki qanchi hai!

Dushwari April 12, 2007, 4:12am 17

Re: human being can never do unconditional love

unconditionality itself is a breaker for the all kinds of selfishness
determining the parameters for this, comes first and then iit becomes the basis for defining, maintaining the momentum and protecting real love.
parents and off spring and spouses can have this unconditionality - once they are able to express clear expectations and honestly but creatively problem solves together for the real happiness.
change of minds and hearts in the wrong way is very dangerous and rigged with pain or trumoil, regret and forsook attachment of all kinds, which we all know creates immense voids in the personalities and trust and honesty in their emotional stream.
so better have it unconditional.