It doesn’t need to be depression and dispair. I hope you read the last part of my previous reply.
I don’t know which scenario’s you are creating, but as i said i didn’t mean the cruel things or parents that pressure their daughter to get married or something.
If your parents truly love you and your relationship with them is very good, they trust you a lot. But them you all in love with someone who wants more out of the relationship. You love him a lot but back off for the sake of the respect of your parents and ask him to go to them instead of blindly following your desires. Thats the scenario which popped up in my mind.