hii.im participating here 1st time n the toipc has benn discusd in many ways but i want to put a question dat wat is the original nature of men or hubbys towards females when they hv their wives but they show appriciating attention to other galz,its so depressing to face this situation for a wife,so wat u guys think dat wat shoild wife do or react?when a wife smells some kind of insecurity or insincerety frm her hubby?n when also difficult to open matter with him bcuz no proof to tell him,this is common problem n dirty nature of husbands,do they feel more charm in others??
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keep a pepper spray wid u and use it wen eva u c his i's wondering in yr presence.
Looking appreciatively at other Beauties in front of you is not being insincere, it’s being rude.
Why don’t you check out the next hottie while he is busy looking at the girls :halo:
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I actually see nothing wrong with a man appreciating the beauty of the opposite sex. Its in their nature to do so and to deny them that or to attack them for doing something that just comes naturally to them is wrong. Sure, if they get lude or make rude comments then they need to be put in their place. But simple admiration is just something that guys do. And if their wife realizes and accepts this with good humor then I bet the husband is that much more appreciative of his wife and her ability to know him and to accept him for what he is.
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When a wife feels insecure or threatened, which is mostly the case - she should divert herself and put her energies towards something more positive - like doing the dishes or cooking/cleaning.
^ When a wife feels insecure she should dress-up her best.. and grab the attention of the closest good-looking guy! ;)
The man would prolly flare-up, and tell her how wrong it is for a married female to be oogling at other men sigh
^ The Art of Flirting..
now go along and find u're self a jaanwarni..
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^ is that the new and improved cheating?
Ah and not that just, its cheating plus discrimination!
If a husband does it it's called "looking at another woman?" If a wife does it it's called infidelity and cheating? Sorry, it's called The Art of Flirting!
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^ And what you are doing right now is called 'being stubborn'.
^ I'm loving it!
What u're doing is called flooding ;)
When a wife feels insecure or threatened, which is mostly the case - she should divert herself and put her energies towards something more positive - like doing the dishes or cooking/cleaning.
you for real?
keep a pepper spray wid u and use it wen eva u c his i's wondering in yr presence.
:CareBear: love the new n improved texting lingo
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If you talk to a guy about it he would say I rather do it in front of my girl rather behind her back
hii.im participating here 1st time n the toipc has benn discusd in many ways but i want to put a question dat wat is the original nature of men or hubbys towards females when they hv their wives but they show appriciating attention to other galz,,,its so depressing to face this situation for a wife,,so wat u guys think dat wat shoild wife do or react?when a wife smells some kind of insecurity or insincerety frm her hubby?n when also difficult to open matter with him bcuz no proof to tell him,,,this is common problem n dirty nature of husbands,,,do they feel more charm in others??
So he looks at other women...if he does it in front of you in a very obvious way where you're uncomfortable then put him in his place.
"Betcha she wont look at you like that" or "Did you want me to get her number for you?" or
"Why are you looking at her like you know her? How do you know her? You know her, dont you? I knew it, I knew it! You're cheating on me! Thats it, I want half of everything including the shirt on your back!"
Just kidding...these are jokes. If I ever caught him looking at another girl right in front of my face, I would look at other men. Simple.
you for real?
Never doubt that.
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The best solutions for this problems are
1) Pray to Allah, Ask Allah to show HIM the right path, and keep him on YOUR track
Once done praying, its time to act
1) Help him identifying beauty and appreciate it and offer him to look at them
2) during an ordinary conversation, let him know that how somebody ur family knew was decent enough to not to look at the ladies with lust or just for fun, also tell him that u know how difficult it is for the men to come-over this problem and appreciate those who do not stare at beautiful ladies
3) Tell him about the stupid look on man's face when they are staring at a women.
PS: do not let him read this post, if he laughs in reply, try something else, as he may know all of these tactics.
I've seen married women turn-around and look at men.. so it it's normal. Unless he stares at every women walking past him..then we have a problem!