Re: Hubby: "Tumsay Nahi Hoga...."
^ ..and what could that be? I haven't been able to figure out. Any guesses?
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maybe he just doesn't want any kids right now since you mentioned you've been recently married. he's prolly just saying he would like to adopt because he knows it would prolly not pan out at all or atleast not anytime in the near future so he's just trying to delay the whole thing.
edit: and if that's not it then I have no idea whats up with this man. Like seriously who is he trying to impress. he is married now so no need for him to show some extreme display of sensitivity to impress the girls and make them go "awwww" :D
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^ We have already decided when we want to have kids and it's not before 2008. So delaying the "whole thing" is out of picture.
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He is probably thinking like Angelina Jolie. Having kids = body deterioration, stretch marks, weight gain ==> Being unsexy. He just wants you to stay fit like Jolie. Just adopt a kid from Cambodia, name him Maddox and call it a day.
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Re: Hubby: "Tumsay Nahi Hoga...."
ok i retract my previous post. ^^ this man speaks truth
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why is he getting all the blame?? give him a break larki.. he will make his mind.. newly-wed ho.. maybe he is going through tough times at work? maybe he is nto sure if he has enough to support a baby? maybe just maybe, your health is FAR more important to him than to you think.. its easy to say kay i am all fit and fine and why does he worry but its hard not to worry when u love someone.. (trust me on that)
so chill a bit and abb i think you should also drink a thanda glass pani ka.. :) inshaAllah you will have a healthy baby when Allah wants to bless you .. sabar ka phal metha hota hai..
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Who is Angelina Jolie? 
P.S. An irrelevant answer to an irrevelant question. 
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You have the right to have children, he cant deny it
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I just wanted to discuss this. I myself don’t want a baby rightnow.
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it takes two to tango. doesn’t it? her right is fine and so does his decision to wait. these two should come up with a compromise and let the ball roll for now.
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then give it time…
for first 11 months, u cant predict how a partner reacts in bond of marriage..
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I was anemic my whole life, i had low blood count too. My heamoglobin was never above 9, i remember at one time it was 7.somthing.
But would you belive it, when i got pragnent, people told me that normally heamoglobin falls during the last trimester, and some ladies need to take the shots to keep it high. But when i had blood test in 7th month, my heamoglobin was 13. I dont know how it happend, i was amazed and so was my doctor. And after 3 years its still the same.
So its all in Allah’s hands.
I know how u feel right now, because my husband wouldnt agree on having a second child. He said that we’d adopt the other one. It took me time to convince him of having another one. I didnt want to have the other baby right away, anyway. So, i convinced him slowly.
Re: Hubby: "Tumsay Nahi Hoga...."
It might be the thing dope is talking about but you think its irrelevant. May be he's got something else in his mind but he's putting you off the track by saying keh 'tum se nahi ho ga'( which is very lame ofcourse ).
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He is doing a simple humanatarian thing.
There are thousands if not millions of homeless and orphan kids being raised in orphanages, why not adopt them?
If you really love the child, does it have to be biologically as long as you love them.
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o mairay janta ke pujari... blood COUNTS!
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Hain?