Re: Hubby: “Tumsay Nahi Hoga…”
You haven’t wrote exactly why your husband doesn’t want to have biological children. Is he afraid for your health? Do you have any kind of medical condition that puts your health in danger if you get pregnant? Is there any kind of genetic diseases in your OR his family that puts the biological child at a higher risk for having it?
If it’s your health that he’s worried about, then why don’t you make an appointment with your OB/GYN, take your husband with you, and have the OB/GYN explain to him that you’re in no danger from the pregnancy.
Whatever the reason is, being a female, I don’t think I’d be upset if my husband didn’t want to have biological children but wanted to adopt instead. Pregnancy/Childbirth is not the most “fun” experience on the earth from what I hear…and in my eyes, children are children. There are thousands out there who need a loving mom and dad. If I adopt an infant, I would see that child just like I see my own family…he/she wouldn’t be any less “my child” just b/c I didn’t give birth to him/her physically.