Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
Ok as its obvious that we all are making fun of ajuba here, so let me speak from her side. I am sure that she is very grateful towards the thoughtfulness of her hubby but maybe she is sensing some mechanical behavior towards his act. If the special dates are part of his blackberry calendar with a note saying 'stop at 7-11 to buy half dozen roses' then the act is meaningless. I am sure that she would appreciate a dine out, or a romantic movie or a hug more than the act of getting some flowers from him like he is just taking care of some obligation