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^ I like the black part
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First of all he is not a loser, but he is honest to the girl whom he will marry… Many guys like to hide their negative points before marriage, but after marriage they give surprises to the poor girl…
Now he is honest that is why he doesnt wanna distroy a girls life… yeah you are right in a way… he should change himself…
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You know what… I pray from Allah that he fall in love badly with someone … then i will see how he wouldnt change himself… 
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hahahahahah… na dont worry i am sure enough he is not
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^ Ummm life isn't an Indian movie. Don't bet on it.
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I think anyone has the right to live the kind of life they want and if both partners agree to it, than there should not be a problem.
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Too each his own. I am sure if anyone looks hard enough and long enough, they will find what they are looking for. Or else, they will change their demand list.
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1) The girl shouldnt interfere in my out door problems -- She should because who else would help him with his problems.
2) She should stay home, mean not work or go out alot -- if thats what he wants and he has the means to why not?
3) Wear proper Hijab -- Why not wear a hijab? I mean it is a women's duty in Islam to wear a hijab anyway, so whats the big deal.
4) She should listen to whatever he say --- Of course why not
I see nothing here that seems to be a problem.
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Atti in wich year do your friends live girl?? Cheez!
A husband & Wife are equal and if a husband & wife have a
argue about something the wife has the right to say something
about it. A husband and wife has to listen to each other not only
the women should listen to her hubby.
I never would marry a man like your friend!
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Tell him to put his pacifier back in his mouth and suck that for the rest of his life, cuz he ain't going anywhere with that kind of attitude.
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I'm speechless and shocked to hear your friend's views.
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a 28, or a 78 year old man can change himself if he needs to, but if he has is not a bullheaded idiot. Its never too late to change, true that habits and perspectives become more ingrained as years pass, but where there is a will there is a way.
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Well I am sorry but who cares about that honesty if it is still gona effect other person’s life in a negative mannar.
Every healthy relationship is always a two way street. Both the partners need to be sincere and honest with both eachother and themselves. Both of them have to make compromises and put in some extra effort to make that relationship a successful one.
I am sorry i did not mean to be offensive when I said he is a looer. All I meant was when someone knows he/she is wrong and doesn’t want to make an effort to correct that wrong, then there is something really wrong with that person. Either he/she has done something wrong in past that he/she is scared of (or/and) he is not sincere with himself. At that moment it won’t harm but in the long run it might.
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the guy cant expect things from the girl like for example islamic characteristics when he doesnt possess such characteristics himself.....he cant want what he cant offer the other......