What do you do? Maybe that would give us idea. Vaisey, making small talk is innate. Some people are genuine extroverts and can do it others come off as transparently fake. which one are you?
I guess im neither. Def not a fake else I would have no problem talking rubbish. Can be extroverted but with people i know which doesn't help with people i dont know.
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'I've noticed you around ... I find you kinda attractive ... will you go to bed with me?' usually works a treat.
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I sincerely appreciate all your contributions. really sincerely.
it has made me reflect on my small talk and realise I am a greattttttttttttttt conversationalist!
In fact I should rename this thread to offer advice to u all.
Just to get the ball started, I normally feign interest in something that the other person has said. I usually find that once they start talking, you can keep milking whatever they say to try and find more to talk about.