how2smalltalk?

My career is spiralling upwards..im meeting types of people i have never met before…and i don’t know how to make small talk!!!

I can deliver courses to 100s of people…which get evaluated very well but when the sessions end what do i TALK about???

don’t tell me to listen..don’t tell me to ask about family..i need sentence starters..

'I've noticed you around ... I find you kinda attractive ... will you go to bed with me?' usually works a treat.

Sobi..its not that kinda work!!
besides u should understand..u working class.. council state..non culturedified brummie.

The rest of u i need some advice here!!

What do you do? Maybe that would give us idea. Vaisey, making small talk is innate. Some people are genuine extroverts and can do it others come off as transparently fake. which one are you?

I guess im neither. Def not a fake else I would have no problem talking rubbish. Can be extroverted but with people i know which doesn't help with people i dont know.

OK..what do you do? What is the setting, who is the counterparty..

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*Originally posted by Sadi Sobi: *
'I've noticed you around ... I find you kinda attractive ... will you go to bed with me?' usually works a treat.
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Here are a few conversation starters that should get the ball rolling.

  1. Out of curiosity, were you for or against Columbine?

  2. Don’t you think that teachers need to caress their students a little more?

  3. Wouldn’t we gain credibility with our students if we shared our own drug experiences with them?

I sincerely appreciate all your contributions. really sincerely.
it has made me reflect on my small talk and realise I am a greattttttttttttttt conversationalist!
In fact I should rename this thread to offer advice to u all.

Just to get the ball started, I normally feign interest in something that the other person has said. I usually find that once they start talking, you can keep milking whatever they say to try and find more to talk about.

Sedendipiti can you check you PMs ? Thanks

Rudra