It is not the process used in hooking up and getting married which makes a marriage successful.
It is love , respect and understanding which does the trick. These can come before or after the marriage.
A marriage based on love has equal chance of failing because people in love put their best foot forward before marriage , but after the marriage they show their true colors.
LOL, that made me laugh. My mom always said that love marriage doesn't work because the spouses get over protective of each other. I mean they dated eachother so what makes them so sure that they won't 'fall in love' again. I don't know how much truth there is in that though =/.
Absolutely, only for the first week.
" Marriage is a love story in which hero dies in the first chapter"
That is done by people who are flits , not true lovers who will die loving one and only true love of their life.
So I have read in stories of Romeo and Juliet , Sohni and Mahinwal , Liala and Majnoon, Shaireen and Farhaad.
i think there is some aspect of fantasy in love. u have all the more time to build skyscrapers of expectation abt life afterwards and what people dont take very much into account generally is that such skyscrapers should not be built for life afterwards will involve a lot more people whose opinions and views need to be considered.
Hence the jolt when married life begins and such variables come into play in the love marriage couple's hitherto uncomplicated life