How you deal with

your stress and when you are feeling really down?

I tend to burry myself in work. My WORKING hrs are stretched to furthest limits. I know it’s not healthy but what the heck I get paid quite well for it.

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eat, drink, and sleep alot :D

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weep, excercise, and pray.

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I usually go to sleep, talk to someone I am close to, go out for excercise, read Quran, take a shower, read a good book.

If I am also depressed, than I feel like shedding tears as well, like now I am.

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^ aww why? feel better :hugz:

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hmm so CRYING is a common factor so far!

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crying is not weeping, people !

semantics, is different

he use to mix the two, as well.

please, at least, you folks don't do this.
dushwari

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whats the difference?? they're synonyms..same meaning... both meant as an expression of grief, sorrow, pain, etc..

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argh… ok fine WEEPING is the common factor. :grumpy:

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well technically they are different. :-) you can CRY with pain, but you WEEP only if you are emotionally moved.

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dear friends.
you are right.

here is another perspective i would like to offer.

phonetically, metaphorically and semantically

crying has to do with yelling - calling out, screaming, to lament for some injustice, or to indicate anger.

weeping is, on the other hand -

silent in nature originally, & liquid in property.

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shall I ask MOD to move this to S&P so we could have a detailed discussion over this :bummer:
don’t take it wrong please.

PS: in simpler words, CRYING is the AGGRESSIVE form of the same emotion.

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^ :rotfl:

I sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeP :sleep:

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Ok then Dushwari, thank you for clearing that out…
So for me Weeping is wat I do..weeping myself to sleep..
For stress..I usually bury myself in work/exercise/work/loud dukhi music…sure takes the edge off the weepines..:halo:

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I am not able to control my tears when my intentions are sincere and I end up hurting anyone.

Anyways, Thanks alot sister for the kind words of encouragement.

May Allah bless you and your family with all the blessings of this life and hereafter.

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I wish I could do that :(

Um i do the opposite...cry...just dwell on it...eat...tooo much gupshup...ignore my schoolwork, health, everything...

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get along with life. is thew stress related to any specific thing , then find your way out . if not -- give a new dimension to your thinking rather being sad and pitying over yourself

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and what exactly gave you the idea that I am pitying over myself!

teh question is not WHAT should I DO. the topic is HOW you deal with it. :-)

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weeping or crying for your ownself is like pitying yourself .
i never meant to say that you are pitying over yourself . it was do never cry .. as some1 else would have mentioned it .

yes , grow out of the situation that stresses you .you have to find a way out becaz you know it better

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sleep it off.....

and

starve it off....