Re: how wud u handle this?
look like hubby having just affair with other women as time pass but the other woman truned out to be all out to have revenge for play up with her. hubby initially would have though he could handle and can get away with this and also keep his family at home.
the other woman in question knew about his wife and was hopeful in someway, but when man got back to her wife or wasnt ready to leave her, she came back with all she has got. she had nothing to loose but you both have.
best thing is to forgive your hubby if you can and move on with life.