How would you see this?

[Reha]

Re: How would you see this?

@gudiaali

The only reason to add him from another a/c is to get an idea about his character. I am not passing judgement on him but yes that does raise the question in my mind that i have posted here. Also, in my opinion creating an Fb account to spy on people is different than creating one to get an idea about the guy you might be spending your life with.
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If you don’t tell him who you are and friend him…isn’t that spying? I am just wondering how its different? I get it that you want to get to know him but in order for you to do that…you’d have to tell him who you are. Set ups are always a bad idea because you are basically…well…setting him up. Not fair.**

i also agree that being a single guy he is open to explore his options, but the kind of profile that guy has and the kind of family he belongs to, i am certain that he would not be exploring his options for marriage via any social media route. So the assumption that he might have accepted any random girl’s friend request so that he could pursue it further for marriage, is out of question.

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Right and I get that. But technically speaking…he is still free isn’t he? I mean he can still look around, talk to girls and keep his options open without fearing anyone…right?

Its up to you of course…your call entirely. But I would not be okay with marrying someone who tried to set me up or spy on me like this. I would not trust them. **