How would you see this?

Re: How would you see this?

if you had multiple rishtas at the moment and were looking into all of them, and talking to those guys, would that make YOU a flirt who talks to guys? maybe not random because they are technically proposals, but still, a flirt nonetheless because they are multiple?

if your answer is no, then the answer what he is doing is also no.

as another posted commented, he has ZERO obligation to you at the moment because he is in fact, very much single, and whether or not he is weighing his other options, or just talking to girls for whatever reason, is none of your business, as you can do the same with no repercussions.

with that being said - until you have a rishta pakka on both ends with this guy, you don’t have any holding over him and what he does.

there are no red flags because he is ***not ***committed to you so you have no grounds to say anything about that

now, if this rishta does go further into a baat pakki, first thing I would do if I were you, is come clean about adding a new profile etc.. but that’s a talk for later