How would you feel and react to this?
I wouldn’t say anything but I would be shattered if I was in her place.
Re: How would you react?
I would first look for the translation of "woh uski job wob sub rukwa dainge" .
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it means he wont let her work anymore.
I would first look for the translation of "woh uski job wob sub rukwa dainge" .
LOL
I didn't get that either.
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:@:
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One is saying to the other that they will make her quit her job.
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those were the exact words in urdu isiliye i wrote it in urdu 
ab you both got it or not:emmy:
:no: its either the husband saying to someone or the father saying to the mother kinda situation.
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She cant tell who was talking? Husband or father??? 
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I also thought the husband and father were plotting it together. Now I am even more confused. :(
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Then one day she overhears her Dad/husband saying ki **"woh uski job wob sub rukwa dainge"
**Is that the ONLY SENTENCE that was overheard? I know it's easier said than done, but it's better to seek clarification before jumping to conclusions about the intentions of the people who made the comment.
It's possible that the husband and dad made this comment with the intention to make life "easier" for the woman. Maybe they're assuming that she'll prefer to relax at home and will be less stressed that way. If this assumption of theirs is incorrect, then the woman needs to calmly explain to the husband and the dad that her job, which was once a necessity, has become like a passion for her and something that she's proud of.
It could also even be that while the woman feels that she's meeting the needs of her household and job, other family members could feel that something is lacking. In this case as well, the woman will have to discuss the matter with her family and if she wants to continue working, then some sort of plan/schedule/mutual compromise may need to be worked upon.
EVEN (let's say) that the comment was made out of insecurity or jealousy...or disapproval over the idea that a woman should work....or with the desire to control (let's assume the intentions behind the comment were less than positive)....EVEN THEN....a discussion needs to take place. As far as the question "How would you react?" is concerned, it's more practical to react in a calm an proactive manner as opposed to letting your hurt and anger get the better of you....thus causing both parties to become very defensive...which can hinder cooperation and compromise.