Unless it has something to do with me personally…I wouldnt care much.
If they dont involve you in it, its less headache for you to wory about. You know how much drama you’re avoiding by staying out of it? Thank Allah swt, put a smile on your face and go about your business. Notice everything but say nothing.
THe concept of Bahu is sensitive. IF you were a sister critisizing your husband’s uncle…people might raise an eyebrow but they’ll forgive eventually. IF the Bahu does the same…its not simple criticism…its dushmani now.
And this is for future references…NEVER give your opinion regarding anyone in your inlaws’ family.