How would u do it?

So true coz parents wanna protect their daughters from extra criticism.but i think its easy if the girl does most of her talking herself coz only then u can actually know abt her manners,ideas, view,likes n dislikes etc n its not the parents misleading u"oh ye sub humari bachi nai banaya hai"

its a lenghty discussion n will be just off topic but u can google n will know.