Salaam Guppie’s.
Ive a question to you all.
How will you react if your friend (not boyfriend) say to you
you’re a dejected person. Out of the blue.
Will you get angry at him/her Or you will say something
back to that person.
And if your friend say before rude things to you will you
end the friendship? No matter how long youre friendship
is with him/her?
Plz tell me.
Allah Hafiz.
Nilu.
:( Plz answer
what does dejected mean?
it depends, if this freinds always say mean things , then he or she is not your friends, they just want to be near you, so that they can find fault in you and feel superior.
but if i am doing somethiing wrong, i would like my friend to tell me, but not in front of all people
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*Originally posted by diyah: *
what does dejected mean?
it depends, if this freinds always say mean things , then he or she is not your friends, they just want to be near you, so that they can find fault in you and feel superior.
but if i am doing somethiing wrong, i would like my friend to tell me, but not in front of all people
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Hi Diya.
My friend means with dejected means im a sad person.
:(
Re: How will you react if your friend say this to you??
**How will you react if your friend (not boyfriend) say to you’re a dejected person. Out of the blue.
Will you get angry at him/her Or you will say something
back to that person.
**
will be more hurt than angry … but won’t say anything back to the person …
**And if your friend say before rude things to you will you
end the friendship?No matter how long youre friendship
is with him/her?
**
likely but then it depends on how rude was it and did the person really meant it … and was any sincere apologies made …
but then these are just my personal view …
Batameez.
I was very hurt when my friend say that
and i said nothing to him.
My friend say it was just a joke but i don’t
like that joke it hurts me a lot.
He said sorry to me but i know he make
sometime’s strange joke’s and then say sorry again.
I really don’t know what to do.
If i break the friendship im afraid i will regret it later.
I talk with some one and she say to me to not
talk to him regulary.
But i really think to break the friendship but im afraid.
Nilu.
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hi Diya.
My friend means with dejected means im a sad person.
:(
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HI
in a bad kind of way nilu? I think it will hurt and i will be angry, iwill probebly avoid this so called freind
you should listen to your female freind, i thin she is rite,
as i told before I will avoid this so called freind, and wwe will grow apart. I dont think it was a joke
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*Originally posted by diyah: *
HI
in a bad kind of way nilu? I think it will hurt and i will be angry, iwill probebly avoid this so called freind
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Hi Diya.
Ya he say it bad kind of way but for him was
it a joke.
I was really really hurt and also angry at him.
And i don't talk to him about 2 days.
I also said to him he thinks so about me that im
a sad person but he said it was a joke yaar.
hmm … did you made it known to the person that you don’t like his jokes? and as for breaking friendship i can’t comment on that it up to you … but do think twice …
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*Originally posted by batameez: *
hmm ... did you made it known to the person that you don't like his jokes? and as for breaking friendship i can't comment on that it up to you .... but do think twice ...
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Hi Batameez.
Ya i always say to my friend if he make stupid joke's
that i don't like it.
But i don't tell him that i want break the friendship
coz his behaviour.
Batameez he is also Libra is like you but i think
you're very different huh?
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hi Batameez.
Ya i always say to my friend if he make stupid joke's
that i don't like it.
But i don't tell him that i want break the friendship
coz his behaviour.
Batameez he is also Libra is like you but i think
you're very different huh?
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hmm .. since you made it known to the person that you don't like the jokes and he still jokes around ? thats weird .. if he was your friend he should have listen/understand you, haina? hmm ... yeah i am libra and i am different i guess ....
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*Originally posted by batameez: *
hmm .. since you made it known to the person that you don't like the jokes and he still jokes around ? thats weird .. if he was your friend he should have listen/understand you, haina? hmm .. yeah i am libra and i am different i guess ....
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Hm i think so but he is he don't thinks before
he says someting.
And that come's very harsh to me.
But anywayz i will see what i will do.
Thanks for ur advise Batameez. :)
Nilu.
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hm i think so but he is he don't thinks before
he says someting.
And that come's very harsh to me.
But anywayz i will see what i will do.
Thanks for ur advise Batameez. :)
Nilu.
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ok ... :-)
Maybe he made an honest observation
Nilu maybe he just wants you to realise that you shoudl be more active and alive…when people say that to me../I say…:D…yeh I am..so? I’m a self professed L O S E R 
Don’t feel too bad…he’s still your buddy no?
be a paTThaan and forget it.. regret later but ignore it…
make some new friends and enjoy the life 
Re: How will you react if your friend say this to you??
I'll try to find out whether my boyfriend is really interested in me or not- If yes... then continue... otherwise leave him... N forget the stupid or bad remarks... as life means continuity or to move on.. in other words...
Hi Sheep Bee.
He is not my Boyfriend but Just a Friend.
And Anwaar im not a Pathaan.
i never said u are 
i said act like one.. their mentality is the best and sensible in these situations… works for them.. and self-satisfaction is what everyone looks for:k: