ive realised, some people just dont know how to deal with criticism
they dont know how to take it when they’re in the wrong.. instead of owning up and apologising they lash out or maybe put blame on the criticiser
why is that so? do people not know how to take crap when its rightfully deserved? or they simply do not believe they can be in the wrong?
hoe?
Maybe they like to play "innocent victim".
aishaaaaaaaaaa 
mehnaz, yeah thats prob it…
LOL, I take criticism pretty good actually :D
and about those who cant take it, just a personality flaw I guess.
damn..but no, i dont take criticism vell..me is alvays RIGHT
The problem is , some people give constructive criticism - like insults.
aisha thats a lie.. ur a sweety
MQ, insults are childish.. i dont think thats criticism...
if someone has been hurt by ur actions, u should apologise instead of creating a scene.. no?
I guess facing up to it would be a start. Some people can't do that though and end up accusing the other person cause that is easier than admitting your mistakes. I like to call it, Playing Victim Syndrome.
^ agree... its so not admirable
Depends who it is coming from. I don't like it when someone in my family critisizes me no matter what the reason. But I have a few friends who can say a lot more and i'll take it positively. This ex-boss of mine is one of my very very very good buddies. He gives me a lot of critical evaluations and just says whatever is on his mind. Sometimes he apologizes for being very harsh but I don't mind anything he says, he is usually right. I think Roman is another person who is usually right whenever(rarely) he gets in to criticism. I don't mind what he says either. But it has only happened on a couple of occasions, he probably doesn;t even remember!
^ yeah i think it depends on who it is :)
i dont take criticism well from family either, but thats cus i always get criticised.. im a traumatised bachi..
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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
aisha thats a lie.. ur a sweety
MQ, insults are childish.. i dont think thats criticism...
if someone has been hurt by ur actions, u should apologise instead of creating a scene.. no?
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I meant that there are ways of giving criticism.Some people give it like kind advice.Others, who dont know how to give it, make it sound like an insult.
i really like criticism, and cant for the life of me distinguish between constrcutive and destrcutive criticism. why? cuz i do not have such immense psychic powers to divine ppls minds as sadz and some of the other very mature ppl have on this form.
besides i like it irrespective, cuz hearing it is exactly what tells me i was right.
jub shor nahee hota, to phir peechay muur kay daikhna parta hay kay ghalat jagah to nahee aa gaee.
let this be a warning to everyone on this board…i hate criticism 
Hm. I seem to have made a career out of diplomatically giving criticism, and I think I can take it most of the time. But it really depends on who is giving it and in what way.
I like it when people criticize me ... because its start an argument & only then they realize I am enjoying the converse.
U know it doesnt take much energy to beat someone to a pulpy bloody mess.. a few hard blows to the chin or nose will do wonders
and it takes even fewer muscles to move the third digit on your hand and say smell my finger.