or your parents choice since they have more experience than you do?
Do u think that someone you might pick or have picked will be the right one?I mean love is blind. When you are in love you cant see what you should really consider.Is it true?
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It’s too late now for these questions 
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cant say until u have the experience wd the person............
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I am not sure. I am always in confusion .. .. the kind a girl i like are too Bold/Confident if i see them into my family. But i love confident girls :$ .. CONFUSED!
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Whatever you go for… you should have the strength to stand by your choice and attempt to make it work despite difficulties… people who go around blaming their parents, themselves or even their fate for a wrong choice can never be successful in life 
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Someone with a level head. It doesn’t matter if you find yourself the right person or ask your parents to do so as long as you stand by the decision and make it work through thick and thin instead of quitting and bailing.
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It’s a gamble either way. But if you’re asking about a prospective husband then I’d rather choose one myself and if God forbid it were to not work out, it’d solely my responsibility ( in the sense that I chose the spouse and wouldn’t be able to blame mia familia). Now if only Hugh Laurie was crazy enough:hinna:
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Yup. I know that very well 
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whoever's choice it is, I tend to think that you should stick to whatever decision you have made, and do your best to make it work. Obviously I don't know what the future holds, or how things will be, but I think you should stick things out, once the choice has been made, as even if parents made it, you have consented to it.
It does however get a little difficult and disheartening when you happily put all your trust in your parents, so that they would be happy too, and then they begin to question their own decision?
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I believe there is risk in both the options .. When parents choose a partner for you, they are looking at the external factors like Family kasi hai , larka settled hai etc etc .. The risk is that tomorrow you might find that the family was good lekin larka is very different in personality compared to the larki ... When you choose for yourself , you look at the larka and love makes you forget the other important factors , like family kasi hai, is he stable enough to afford a family etc ..
The key thing is that which ever the case, your choice or your parents choice , its ultimately you, the girl , who has to make an effort to make it truly work ... and there is no short cut to effort .
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^ I agree... guys and girls dun give importance to issues like cast, language, family background etc etc if there is understanding and liking between them.. all they want is to have a good relationship and they think understanding and compatibility is what is needed most. The parents and families look for various issues more than the compatibility and understanding between the girl n guy (they often ignore the compatibility part). Thus in arranged choices, the end results would be that there might be differences between the husband and wife and they cannot get along well despite the perfect match of their families... in the love marriage, the compatibility factor is present but there might be difficulty in adjusting with the families because of possible 'inappropriate' match between the families...
The conclusion: there should be inner satisfaction once you make a choice and decision and then work hard towards making the marriage work