How Vital is Intellectual Compatibility?

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Re: How Vital is Intellectual Compatibility?

@swtangel16

I think it’s important to an extent but the most important thing should be whether or not you can carry on a conversation with that person and how comfortable you feel with him/her…Personally for us i think both me and hubby have the same intellect level (if that makes sense) but there are still things that i learn from him and vice versa..…in the end it just comes down the personalities being compatible with one another

I would say excellent point .. .. thats what i meant to say .. .. I believe a persons “personality” grows through out his life .. earlier, its his parents/family who helps to make him learn, observe thing. when he/she starts his/her life then i beleive its his/her partner.

Not every single person has 100% exposure of life .. .. there would be lots of flaws and those flaws would be source of new personality grooming for me .. ..

The most important thing that i believe should be .. is Willing to compromise. In arrange marriage, its obvious case .. but in love marriage - you gotta develop it. In simple words, its the Acceptance of disagreements .. ..