How u tell some1 u love them?

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@farah_no

I suppose I wont know what I would do until I am in the situation. My fiance has said it to me but I havent said it. I will wait until after the wedding.

I dont know him very well so I cant possibly say it yet. Love grows with time in an arranged marriage, it just doesnt happen all of a sudden.

ur situation is different. I am talking about saying it to some1 to show them that u like them more than a friend…and hence are interested in marriage etc.

[phatima]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

jerks

[farah_no]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

If I was in your position I dont think I would be able to say it because I would fear rejection.

If you have the confidence, just go for it!!!!! You wont know how he feels until you say it.

[Starsky]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

If you plan for the event then its a lot harder as all the anticipation bulids up. You want the perfect setting and can loose your nerve very easily.

Believe me, I know

I’d say, don’t ever plan for it, just drop hints every now and then and go with the flow. The right moment will come when you least expect it.

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@Starsky

If you plan for the event then its a lot harder as all the anticipation bulids up. You want the perfect setting and can loose your nerve very easily.

Believe me, I know

I’d say, don’t ever plan for it, just drop hints every now and then and go with the flow. The right moment will come when you least expect it.

thanks:) great advice.

[Raindance]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

I’ll take 24 hours and spread them to 24 days to say it. Move on if I only n clearly hear the clock, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, k:

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

ok assume u r 99% sure the other person feels the same way. maybe the other person is also waiting for u to say it first.....and if both dont say it, it'll be a sad end right ?

[Raindance]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

Sad! no,,,,stupendous and cowarded laced Yes! In either case a perfect 'basket case' scenerio,,,,These two IF ever do get a match ,, it will be a struggling contest for them to make sense of small things in life to come, when it matters the most.

[yourfriend]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@Impulse

how you are supposed to tell some1 that u love them?

a Kiss would do… …
…got guts?? ……

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@Raindance

Sad! no,stupendous and cowarded laced Yes! In either case a perfect ‘basket case’ scenerio,These two IF ever do get a match , it will be a struggling contest for them to make sense of small things in life to come, when it matters the most.

you are the most pessimistic person I have ever met

seriously u r. how u know when these 2 met? how do u know that maybe yet its too early to say so…you dont even know anything and u r making this predictions. keep them predicitions to urself Mr Mystic Meg Wannabe

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@yourfriend

a Kiss would do… …
…got guts?? ……

I dont do kiss/hug/holding hands etc. before marriage.

so u can take that advice back

[yourfriend]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

u didn’t specify in ur original post that u r talking about “him” …u said “them”… that can include “anybody”.. even, ur immediate family… …

easy easy girl…just messing around with ya…

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

ok I say it now…I was talking about a guy

a guy in general off course

[yourfriend]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

…achii bachiyan shaadii say pahlay kissii say yeh bhi nai kahteen kay ‘main tum say pyaar kertii hon’ …burri baat hai…:nono:

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@yourfriend

…achii bachiyan shaadii say pahlay kissii say yeh bhi nai kahteen kay ‘main tum say pyaar kertii hon’ …burri baat hai…:nono:

acha…toh agar shaadi kar lene ke baad…“I love you” kehna ka dil bhi na chahe…cuz u dont feel that way for them?

phir kya hoga?

[Raindance]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@Impulse

you are the most pessimistic person I have ever met

seriously u r. how u know when these 2 met? how do u know that maybe yet its too early to say so…you dont even know anything and u r making this predictions. keep them predicitions to urself Mr Mystic Meg Wannabe

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Answers in order to the highlighted areas,

Ever met,!! So you agree that life is reseptive to more revealing secrets as you progress in life? , pessimistic comes with happenings. Often such truths are tossed out with it.

How do we know any thing about LIFE ??? If we don’t live through it at least once, look onto those who did,and perhaps learn few things or two,

These are not “Predictions” but genuine life experiences of thousands and millions, You just need to open your eyes bit wider,

See! Again, you post a question and when you get replies you shun them out with ‘Rude’ remarks like this,
**Qoute **- keep them predicitions to urself Mr Mystic Meg Wannabe - **unqoute **

Its my habit of taking abuse ONCE only, give benefit of the doubt , and if that person means ‘Business’ he or she would be in tears by now,

**SO LEARN TO BE TOLERANT !!! **

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

^you are the only person in this whole thread who I asked to keep their views to themselves

and yeah I totally disagree with you

but then again, there are many different types of people in the world…and me and you…I guess we are on the total opposite sides of the spectrum. cuz my thinking is totally different to yours. anyway, u have ur way…I have mine. so leave it

[yourfriend]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@Impulse

acha…toh agar shaadi kar lene ke baad…“I love you” kehna ka dil bhi na chahe…cuz u dont feel that way for them?
phir kya hoga?

shaadii say pahlay ‘I love you’ bol doo… tou iss baat ki kya guarantee kay kay aapki shaadii bhi ussii say ho gii?..khamkhawa main ik ‘ghair’ insaan per aapnay jazbaat ka izhaar ka bhi kya faida…?? … chahay aapko aapka Partner acha lagay yeh na lagay… par aapkay ‘Izhaar’ ka Asal Haq-Daar sirf aur sirf “Wohi” hai…
…
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ok ‘durss’ time khapisshhh…me just bored… … lets talk about something else…

[Impulse]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

conclusion = everyone is different and everyone has their own way of doing things so rehne doh :rotato:

[phatima]

Re: How u tell some1 u love them?

@Impulse

I dont do kiss/hug/holding hands etc. before marriage.

so u can take that advice back

I thought you said you “went out” with a guy for like 4 years.