How true is that...

I’ve heard people saying that, if a guy can leave his parents for you, he can leave you too for someone or something else tomorrow. How true is that?

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that is wrong.....if he leaves his parents for you.....he is ur 'female pet dog'....for a lack of appropriate word.....

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its like saying,if a lady can elope with a man to marry him ,she can elope with another one in a later time?

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dont know about that but I m leaving this thread ....

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as i a woman i question woman's action that what kinda person is she who let that idiot leaves his parents.

ps. just ask the people who grew up in foster protections or orphanage or been adopted. they spend their entire life to get the answer as to why their parents gave up on them. or why God took their parents from them???

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if a guy leave her parents for a chic, he is worst then pig in my eyes. Enough said.

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and a man who dont respect women, is a pig anyways.

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i don't believe in this statement ,leaving parents is hard and disturbing decision if any one left his parents for some one he surely wants to continue with her
from girls point of view this is preset in their minds she must have to left house but 4 boys .... not an easy decision to take.

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chic is not a bad word my Islamists burkha wali gs mate. that is reference to hot/sexy & fashionable larki.

elegance by virtue of being fashionable
elegant and stylish; "chic elegance"; "a smart new dress"; "a suit of voguish cut"
wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

Chic ( "sheek"), meaning 'stylish' or 'smart', is an element of fashion and the counterpart of .
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chic_(style)

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if hot/sexy & fashionable larki is doing haraam in your eyes, then oh well time to blow yourself up. .here we go again :smack:

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I know when Chic ( "sheek") is used and when chic is used. kisi or ko apna jaisa ullo banana.

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well lets prove it then… even on urban dictionary it means:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=chic
a classy, sophisticated manner, much like audrey hepburn. it is classy, glamorous, without being a pushover, and without being flashy. its an element of class.

so yeh .. what the hell .. !

well again if your brain is bad thinker, i have no control over it. So control your urge to bad thoughts that is so wrong … Allah will be very mad. :nono:

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Grrrrrrrrrrr :smack:

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If he,

  • comes from a family that would make a huge fuss about whom he is getting married to,
  • does not have the ability to convince his parents about whom he wants to spend his life with, and
  • is seriously considering the emotional blackmail from his parents,

you'd rather think over marrying him in the first place.

The saying is perhaps outdated now, since most of the girls would have a problem if he DOESN'T want to leave his parents after getting married. :P

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LOL!

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yes if the girl encourages him or forces him that yeah leave your parents etc etc then one day he will leave her or she will leave him. and that will be a lesson for both.

"doosron ke saath bura aro ge tou ek din aap ke saath bhi waisa hi bura hoga"

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Now dude is leaving his parents.......he is the BEST EVER POSSIBLE guy to marry!!!!!!!!!!!

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:k:

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yes, its true, i have seen it happen around me. power of karma:)
BUT:
if he tries till the end to stay with his parents and keep you as well, and basically his parents say leave the house or throw her out or something to that effect, then i say its ok if he leaves them to marry you, he can go back to them with you as your wife after a couple of months, and try to convince them....if he gives up too easily and is ready to leave them from the word get go- then there is a problem, and the saying holds true.

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Well - if hes leaving his parents for you - thats a big thing.

I mean - his parents obviously are not listening to his choice? he has no power/authority in his own house for his own rights (something I could relate to), and perhaps his parents are difficult people?

Obviously he would be in love with the girl - and I think its sad - but it must happen in some instances - I think as for staying power, if he loves you to leave you for people who brought him up, I think thats a huge statement in itself. I don't think he would leave for someone else. He himself is making a huge sacrifice. Logically man or women - you wouldn't do it for just anyone or just anything.

Unless that person meant a lot to you.