how to you address....

andha_qanoon · February 17, 2003, 6:56am

your inlaws after marriage , when you get married to a cousin.

suppose u get married to your khala’s daughter do you still call your mother in law Khala jaan.

I wana hear from people who gone thorugh this situation.

714 · February 17, 2003, 8:24am

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*Originally posted by andha_qanoon: *
your inlaws after marraige , when you get married to a cousin.

suppose u get married to your khala's daughter do you still call your mother in law Khala jaan.

I wana hear from people who gone thorugh this situation.
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i think you keep the old titles. My chachu married his cousin, since she was puppho before, she still is. And she calls my dadi, phuppi still.

My mom's friend was married to her cousin and she also still called her mother-in-law as phuppi

mehroo · February 17, 2003, 2:21pm

i am married with my cousin :halo: and i call my khala as khala jan …there is nothing wrong in that .

roshnie · February 17, 2003, 2:53pm

Interesting question. They used to be auntie & uncle for me (they are my dad's cousins). Now I call them ammi jan & daddy.

Dhoop · February 17, 2003, 4:00pm

yup I call mine khala as well :)

Qrius · February 18, 2003, 12:40am

my ammi called my dadi phuphijaan and my dada phupha jaan..my father called my nana nizam mamu and my nani zubaida mumani. Also, my ammi continued calling my chacha kaku bhai..eventhought from rishta she was now bari bhabi and she called continued my phupho ginni baji.

in my chacha's case, he called his in laws..munna phupho and tawwab phupha..and my chachi called my dada..baray mumma (for mamu).

Naqshbandi · February 18, 2003, 4:02am

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Andha

So AK when are you marrying your cousin.If not then why this sudden need to learn which you wont use ???

suroor_ca02 · February 18, 2003, 6:40am

must be very confusing ..hehe waisay congrats andha ji.

mAd_ScIeNtIsT · February 18, 2003, 7:24am

My parents aren't cousins, but while they were kids they thought they were. My dad called his in-laws alternately by Phuppa and Phuppi, and sometimes as Abbu and Amma.

My mum made the adjustment without problems and csled her in-laws Baba and Ammi...

andha_qanoon · February 18, 2003, 6:41pm

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nahi yaar…aisi koi baat nahi hai…I just trying to know…

SaadiaB · February 18, 2003, 8:06pm

What do you normally call your inlaws (saas & sussar)... when they are not your relatives ??

Mr_Fraudia · February 18, 2003, 9:27pm

Saadia

I guess I am among the minority here who are NOT married to their cousins :D

I address my inlaws the same as my wifeand she addresses my folks the same way I address them

andha_qanoon · February 18, 2003, 9:44pm

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*Originally posted by SaadiaB: *
What do you normally call your inlaws (saas & sussar)... when they are not your relatives ??
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I would guess , same as what their spouses.

Afia · February 19, 2003, 11:28am

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*Originally posted by Fraudz: *
Saadia

I guess I am among the minority here who are NOT married to their cousins :D

I address my inlaws the same as my wifeand she addresses my folks the same way I address them
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same here :)

moona · February 19, 2003, 2:54pm

i would call my in-laws AMI and ABU while my own parents to me are MOMMY and DADDY

!!!

BrokenSky · February 21, 2003, 11:54am

gud:p

Qrius · February 21, 2003, 3:15pm

Saadia, i call my father in law abba and my husband call my parents uncle and aunty.